Find Pick Up Artists (PUA)

Women want a guy who has friends, and what better friend to take out with you than a wingman who’s also a pickup artist? Find a pickup artist in your area to help you meet even more girls than you’re used to.

No matter how cool you are, you won’t present your best self if you’re hanging out at a bar, cafe or lounge all by yourself. Women will think that you’re either a loser who has no friends or a loner who prefers to be alone. Neither of these traits are attractive and girls will move on to the next guy who just happens to be out with a bunch of laughing, smiling buddies. Plus, going out by yourself makes you look weird and desperate, and even if you’re great, girls will automatically be turned off. The only time you should pickup a woman when you’re alone is when you’re out and about doing your daily activities and you happen to run into a cute girl. Other than that, bring along a wingman.

Once you start dating a girl, it’s fine to admit that you’re a bit of a loner. At this point, it may even seem cool. The idea is to get her interested and keep her interested before you let this secret out. You want her so into you that it doesn’t matter if you’re really a loner - or loser - at heart. She’ll already be hooked.

Your main goal when searching for a wingman is to find one who’s familiar with the game. If you’re a seasoned pickup artist, you’ll have even more luck when you have another pro by your side. If you’re still honing your skills and are relatively new to the game, your wingman can teach you the ropes. Either way, you have a better chance of picking up a girl when you’re out with an experienced wingman.

When it comes to finding a wingman, you don’t need expectations that are through the roof. You and your wingman don’t have to possess a lot of similarities. Remember, you’re not out to make a new best friend, you’re out to pickup women. The two things that you must have in common are: the interest in having a good time and the desire to meet and pickup girls.

Pick a guy who always seems to have fun no matter where he is. You’re not going to catch any girl’s attention if your wingman is brooding and looks miserable. The guy who isn’t high maintenance and who seems to enjoy whatever situation he’s in is the guy who will help you meet as many women as possible. This is an important part of picking a wingman. If you go out with a guy who’s too serious, the two of you will come off as predatory and scare girls off. You don’t have to become best buddies, but if you have enough of a friendship to have fun together, you’ll appear more genuine and less greedy.

There are tons of forums dedicated to men who want to find a wingman in their geographical area. There are also Meetup groups specifically for wingmen in certain towns and cities. You’re not limited to just finding a wingman in the U.S., either. Plenty of websites have wingmen listed in different countries, which means you can find a guy to hang out with even if you’re traveling. This is especially helpful if you’re out of your niche. A guy who’s used to the girls in their specific area may have insider tips that you wouldn’t be able to figure out on your own.

Several sites have a chat option so that you can talk to your future wingman before setting a time to meet up. Figure out if you guys have the same goals and like going out to the same places. You also may want to compare the type of girl you’re interested in. Having a wingman who will double the amount of women you meet in a night is one thing. Competing with a guy all evening for the same girl’s attention is another. If you prefer blondes, find a guy who has a thing for brunettes. If petite girls are your preference, find a wingman who loves tall, slender, model types.

Most wingman finder websites have ratings that you can view before choosing a wingman to talk to. Read reviews of wingmen by guys who’ve gone out with them in the past and narrow down your choices before searching further.